Some S.
Florida Latinas converting to Islam for emphasis on family, women's
roles
By Tal Abbady
Staff Writer
Posted January 3 2006
http://www.sun-sentinel.com/news/local/southflorida/sfl-pconverts03jan03,0,7380692.story
Melissa Matos slips into an easy communion with her newest circle
of friends.
At regular meetings, they invoke their families' native towns in
Cuba or the Dominican Republic, or recipes for arroz con pollo.
English is interspersed with Spanish. And, posing no incongruity to
the women, hijabs, or Muslim head scarves, frame their faces.
When she converted to Islam in May, Matos, a Dominican-American
raised as a Seventh-day Adventist, expected the passage to be
lonely.
"I said to myself, `Great, I'm going to be the only Muslim Latina in
the whole world,'" said Matos, 20, a student at Florida
International University who recently joined a group of Latina
converts to Islam.
Scholars say Matos is part of a growing number of Latin women
converting to Islam for its emphasis on family, piety and clearly
defined women's roles, values converts say were once integral to
Hispanic culture but have waned after years of assimilation.
The women are among 40,000 Hispanic converts to Islam in the United
States, according to the Islamic Society of North America. About a
decade ago, Latino converts began forming Internet groups such as
the Latino American Dawah Organization and the women's group Piedad
that trace Hispanics' ties to Islam back to the Spanish Moors.
Grass-roots leaders say the number of converts grew sharply after
the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks, bucking a trend of thought among
Americans that links Islam to terrorism.
Sofian Abelaziz, president of the Miami-based American Muslim
Association of North America, said one indication of the conversions
is the demand for Spanish-language copies of the Koran, which spiked
after Sept. 11. In the past two years, the group has filled orders
for 5,500 Spanish-language Korans for schools, cultural institutes
and prisons around the country, out of 12,000 orders total.
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New
faith Marie Hernandez, with 20-month-old daughter Fatimah, grew up Catholic and converted to Islam after reading the Koran's teachings. Some Latinas in South Florida are becoming Muslim because of the religion's emphasis on family and women's roles. (Sun-Sentinel/Nicholas R. Von Staden)
Jan 3, 2006 |
Matos and other converts say the recent media spotlight on Islam was
their first exposure to the faith and spurred further learning.
"[Before] I picked up the Koran, my attitude was, `There's something
wrong with this religion,'" said Matos, 20, of Miramar. A friend
gave her a copy of the Koran. "But then I saw it was filled
discussions of grace from God, of the protection of things we talk
about as human rights, of a universal brotherhood. ... This is a
religion that encourages thinking and contemplation," she said. In
May, Matos converted by reciting the shahada, a prayer in
which converts attest to their belief in Allah and Mohammed in front
of Muslim witnesses. Islam now circumscribes her life. She is
studying Arabic, prays five times a day, wears a hijab and
follows Islamic dietary laws.
"There is no conflict between my Dominican heritage and Islam. I
grew up in a culture where you have a family you love and you take
care of one another, and Islam complements those values," Matos
said.
Matos' conversion rattled friends and family members who linked
Islam with Taliban-style oppression, but scholars say Latina
converts are practicing a confessional Islam that offers strong
moral guidelines.
"People might ask, `Why would women convert to a religion that is so
traditional in its gender roles?' But that's part of the appeal.
There's a recovery of dignity," said Manuel Vasquez, religion
professor at the University of Florida. "Second-generation Latinas
are caught between the morality of their parents and the morality of
the larger mainstream society. Islam offers a clear code. Women ...
know they are respected, taken care and protected from the negative
influences of secular society. It's a kind of empowerment they don't
experience in a culture that is constantly sexualizing them, and
Latinas are particularly sexualized."
The converts may be fashioning a form of Islam that meets their
needs in a country that allows them to do so.
"It's a comment on our society, on the fragmentation of American
family life," said Leila Ahmed, a Harvard University professor who
has written extensively on gender in Islam. "We have to bear that
this is happening in America, where there is freedom of choice.
These women are not converting in order to go and live in Saudi
Arabia. We also don't know how permanent these conversions are in a
country where people convert two or three times in their lives."
Like many converts, Matos calls herself a "revert," a reference to
the Muslim belief that everyone is born in a state of submission to
Allah. Being Hispanic and following Islam now are inextricable.
"When I meet with [my group] we speak in Spanish," she said. "We'll
talk about what it was like back in Cuba or the Dominican Republic.
And yet we're all wearing hijabs. It reminds me of the universality
of Islam."
Religious leaders say the Latina converts assimilate easily into
Islam.
"What they see in Islam is what their parents used to practice: that
respect for elders, the care and protection that husbands are
obligated to give their wives," said Maulana Shafayat Mohamed,
director of the Darul Uloom Islamic Institute in Pembroke Pines.
"Many converts tell me, `This is how my parents grew up.'"
When a Hispanic Muslim friend slipped a copy of the Koran into her
hands, Marie Hernandez found "a total way of life."
"I
started reading about the life of the Prophet Mohammed,
and I was convinced that this is the true prophet of
God," said Hernandez, 22, of Boca Raton. "This is the
message I have to follow."
Islam also was a powerful antidote to a troubled
adolescence, during which Hernandez left home for two
years.
Conversion meant the end of partying, very little
television and waking up at 5 a.m. for her first
prayers. It also meant reconciling with her
Honduran-born Catholic parents and becoming a Muslim
wife. She met her husband, an Egyptian, through a
meeting arranged by her imam. They have a 20-month-old
toddler, Fatimah, named for the Prophet Mohammed's
iconic daughter.
"At first my parents thought it was weird, and they were
scared," Hernandez said. "They thought I might get too
extreme in my worship. But now we have a beautiful
relationship. Part of being a Muslim is to honor your
parents, and I started treating my dad the way I should
have."
A strong draw for Hernandez was the idea that for
Muslims, Islam is the culmination of all religions. In
the Koran, Jesus is venerated as a prophet, and entire
passages are devoted to the Virgin Mary -- a ubiquitous
figure in Latin American culture.
"It's important to know that Jesus and Mary play a role
in Islam. Most Latin Americans are Catholic because
that's all they know, that's what their predecessors
were," said Hernandez, who cooks tamales to celebrate
the end of Ramadan.
Converts say they are evidence that Latino identity is
in flux.
"One reaction Latinos have with regard to Latinos who
come to Islam is, `You're leaving your religion! You're
leaving your culture!' But Latino culture is evolving,"
said Juan Galvan, president of the Texas chapter of the
Latino American Dawah Organization.
"It's quite possible that Islam will one day be
inseparable from Latino culture just as Christianity
is."
Roraima Aisha Kanar, 52, is from a family of Cuban
exiles who fled Cuba in 1959 and settled in Miami.
Dissatisfied with Catholicism, she converted to Islam 30
years ago.
"My mother was devastated. I couldn't go to the beach
and wear a bathing suit. I had to be covered and not
wear makeup. I couldn't wear low-cut dresses. I felt
like telling her, `Do you mean to tell me that's what's
important in life?'" she said. "I think Latinas who
convert are looking for a culture that we'd always had
and then lost: strictness in the family, respect towards
the elderly, moral and spiritual ties and the importance
of having God in your life. Our grandparents had values
similar to that. As converts we're just coming back to
our roots."
After her conversion, she grew apart from her
nightclub-hopping friends. She married a Turkish man
with whom she has three children.
For Kanar, wearing the hijab, which some see as a sign
of subjugation, is liberating.
"I lived through the '70s women's-lib movement," said
Kanar, who works in accounting and owns a real estate
business. "As a woman you wanted to be accepted as a
person with a brain and not just a sexual object that
had to be looking pretty to men all the time. I saw
covering as something that would give me a lot of
self-esteem. It did."
Kanar says she has straddled her Latino heritage and
Islam comfortably.
"As soon as you speak to me you forget I'm wearing a
hijab. I'm Cuban, and I speak with my hands. I love
Celia Cruz. We don't go to Calle Ocho and we don't
celebrate Christmas. We eat Spanish food, and though we
won't have pork, we can do a nice lamb. What does it
mean to be a Cuban, really? I feel Cuban, but I'm a
Muslim Cuban."
Tal Abbady can be reached at tabbady@sun-sentinel.com
or 561-243-6624